None of us likes to go to a doctor. It is hardly surprising, therefore, our children, who often share this reluctance. Some children, especially those that are likely to be ill, with weeping protesting against the entrance to the doctor. Sometimes, in the home, the news of the planned visit, fall into the panic. For parents is also difficult, as for the child. After surgery to choose the most sick, suffering from a pipsqueak. We know that we go there for help. But he has no such awareness, even if it believes this. So how can it help you like a meeting with doctors?

Most children are afraid of pain that is associated with a physician or from the same building (there's also vaccinated). It is clear that the doctor is someone who is able to know how the medicine will help, so do not be afraid of it, even if you make serious impression (wears stethoscope, using both unpleasant to the touch). In a way comprehensible to your child, Display pediatrician as an ally in the fight against disease, someone who helps you get well and an expert on the human body.

The younger child can be likened to a doctor wizard, whose magic act slowly, but they are very effective. Senior propose the creation of a "list of questions to the doctor" because of the inquisitive nature, children love to ask them. You may find that the child will be eagerly waiting for his turn in the waiting room to ask about it, Why is there a hiccup, or how it happens that we grow hair. There are some situations where the test or accompanied by pain. This is particularly true of vaccination and the injection, blood collection, visits with a dentist. Parents sometimes try to avoid tears, ensuring that the injection or blood does not hurt either denying Child. It hurt and it very much! Appendix A in the sense of pain is a very subjective feeling.

Never lie to a child, for example saying that goes somewhere else, if in fact going to the doctor. Defrauded pipsqueak, do not trust the second time and will no longer fear the pain before each medical visit. In addition, a parent who can not believe there will be no support in difficult moments, and a pipsqueak feel alone. Truth is, however, provide child care that you do not get unnecessarily. If you know that can hurt, warns about the child before the test, rather than at home, in order to increase the child does not fear all the way to practice. I sincerely say: "You know, this test is not nice, you can hurt a bit. You can cry, and I will be with you, you had someone to cuddle."

Yes pipsqueak prepared, even when the surgery will keep the little heroically, after leaving the Cabinet can say: "it was not that bad." As everyone is no strong need to create a positive image of yourself, so it might assert that, saying yes. The child must know that everyone has the right to fear, and tears do not need to be ashamed. If you are afraid of doctors, calmly talk to him, ask about the cause of anxiety. You may be afraid that it will have to be in the same cabinet, or ashamed to be cutting? Sometimes the reason is simply the cry of fear the new situation. Then, simply in order to tell what going on, read the book a visit to the doctor or watch a movie on this subject. The key to prove scared child to understand and respect his feelings. If you are not able to call them, say: "I see that you are nervous, scared that they will," and then show compassion, to provide for his love. Sometimes simply hug, taken to their knees to cheer. For your peace of mind always works on child soothes.